Comments on: No More eggshells http://hearttoheart.wordpress.com/2012/10/31/no-more-eggshells/ Sun, 05 May 2013 01:26:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: micey http://hearttoheart.wordpress.com/2012/10/31/no-more-eggshells/#comment-6707 Fri, 02 Nov 2012 14:01:19 +0000 http://hearttoheart.wordpress.com/?p=4779#comment-6707 I need to learn how to communicate with people. Conflict resolution is one of my biggest issues right now. Instead of telling people how I feel, I eat my anger and it festers until I explode into tears. The problem I have is not liking a characteristic of somebody else and turning that into judgement which leads to anger in my heart. It isn’t even necessarily a wrong done to me. How do I stop doing THAT? have issues, but don’t we all?

]]> By: emjayandthem http://hearttoheart.wordpress.com/2012/10/31/no-more-eggshells/#comment-6700 Thu, 01 Nov 2012 00:34:14 +0000 http://hearttoheart.wordpress.com/?p=4779#comment-6700 I like what you write when you write it, DM — heartfelt, honest, and to-the-point. Like you, I try to address situations that bug me .. sometimes I do avoid them but, after enough pondering, I usually find a way to make myself clear.

My family of origin does not communicate well at all; there’s a lot of fake politeness so as to never address a real issue. There’s a lot of talking about and around but rarely ever at. Everyone’s too busy trying to be “nice” and what really happens is … nothing. It makes me crazed. I love them but I really can hardly stand being around them. I know, it is hard to say that out loud.

Wonderful post!
MJ
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thanks MJ! I appreciate your affirmation :-) sometimes I start to second guess myself after posting something DM

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